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The Backbiting Tongue

Psalm 15:1 A Psalm of David. LORD, who shall abide in thy tabernacle? who shall dwell in thy holy hill?
2 He that walketh uprightly, and worketh righteousness, and speaketh the truth in his heart.
3 He that backbiteth not with his tongue, nor doeth evil to his neighbour, nor taketh up a reproach against his neighbour.

INTRODUCTORY THOUGHTS

When we think of biting something, we think of doing so with our teeth; but backbiting is a work of the tongue. Backbiting is the act of saying something about someone with the intention of harming them personally. In our passage, we learn that backbiting is detestable to the Lord; so much so, that David said the backbiter would not abide in the Lord’s tabernacle. [The words that so flippantly slip from our tongues are often used by the Devil as weapons to wound others.] According to James 3, the tongue kindles a great fire (James 3:5) and is a world of iniquity (James 3:6). The old phrase “sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me” is unscriptural. The Bible says that our tongue is “full of deadly poison” (James 3:8). Backbiting wounds its victims!

DEVOTIONAL THOUGHTS

• (For children): Backbiting is saying mean things about a person while the person is not present. By doing this, we try to make ourselves look good and want others to feel unhappy with the person about whom we are talking.

• (For everyone): Do you speak ill of people when speaking to others? Do you say things that could harm them personally or hurt their testimony? Are the things that you say needful or unnecessary?

• Have you ever had anybody say things about you that were true, but were unnecessary and brought harm to you? How did you feel when they said those things? Should this cause you to think before doing the same?

PRAYER THOUGHTS

• Ask the Lord to help you use wisdom when speaking of others.

• Ask God to keep you from the sin of backbiting others.

SONG: Yield Not To Temptation

Pastor Andrew Ray

Devotions on Backbiting

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